That was certainly entertaining! I mean, going back and forth with others trying to provide unsolicited advise is... annoying, to be honest. I appreciate, like the author, when someone recommends something but please, stop judging openly as if you are Judge Judy for the new moms or something. I believe that kids have their own characteristics and they are their own persona and that would get the best of the new parents. Nobody is perfect, after all we all try to make the best for our own kids. I would say, Susan, many of you, if someone kindly asks for advice, you can share. And if you see a kid in danger for negligence of course please report the issue. But don't disrespect how others try to be parents, as long as it works for them, just save the advise.